Alexys Gonzalez

LMHCA Sex Therapist, ATR-P, RYT 200 (They/Them)
Provides In-person and Telehealth Sessions in Washington

I am passionate about supporting clients in various aspects of their sexual and relational lives, including non-monogamy/polyamory, embracing sexual identities, navigating intimacy and relationship dynamics, exploring gender and sexuality, engaging in kink/BDSM practices, understanding asexuality, and healing from sexual trauma. I also help clients address issues related to desire, arousal, anxiety, depression, grief, and religion/spirituality. As my client, you can expect a therapeutic journey focused on increasing self-awareness, deepening your connection with your body, identifying and deconstructing unhelpful patterns, and developing new coping and communication skills. Together, we will work towards understanding your emotions, wants, and needs while creating and maintaining supportive boundaries in a safe, non-judgmental, and collaborative environment.

My therapeutic approach is rooted in creating a sex-positive and inclusive space where clients feel empowered to explore and reclaim their sexuality. Using Attachment theory, Narrative therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Polyvagal theory, and Expressive Arts therapy, my practice is trauma-informed and anti-oppressive. I integrate these approaches to offer compassionate and educational support tailored to your unique journey of healing and self-discovery.

Client Concerns

  • Kink/BDSM/Fetish
  • LGBTQIA2s+ Populations
  • Marginalized Populations
  • Polyamory/CNM
  • Sexual Pain and Dysfunction

Therapeutic Approaches

  • Attachment Theory
  • Narrative Therapy
  • Polyvagal Theory
  • Solution Focused Therapy

Books I Suggest

Additional Trainings

  • Somatic Sexual Healing, Charlie Glickman, 2024
  • 200 RYT Training, Yoga Farm Ithaca, 2022
  • ADHD & Sex, Bianca Lourenco, 2022
  • Understanding Out Of Control Sexual Behavior, Marc Gilmartin, 2022
  • MA in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and Art Therapy, Antioch University, 2021
  • Sex Therapy Certificate, Antioch University Seattle, 2021 
  • Colonization and Sex, Anne Mauro, 2021
  • Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level 1, The Gottman Institute, 2021
  • Attachment Theory, Kirk Honda, 2021
  • Somatic Theory and Oppression with Alicia Guthery, 2021
  • Sex Educator Certificate, Antioch University Seattle, 2020
  • Sex Therapy in Abusive Systems, Kathryn Stickney, 2020
  • Fat Sexuality, Sheila Addison, 2020
  • Wheel of Consent, Katie Spataro, 2020

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