Alexys Gonzalez

LMHCA Sex Therapist, ATR-P, RYT 200 (They/Them)
Provides In-person and Telehealth Sessions in Washington

Therapy with me is a somatic journey into curiosity, play, and connection. My holistic, multidisciplinary approach to sex therapy is guided by the belief that we all hold the knowledge to create meaningful change in our lives. Informed by harm reduction, anti-oppressive frameworks, mindfulness, and my non-binary, mixed-race identity and life experiences. I bring a creative and curious mindset to therapy and  am committed to supporting clients from all backgrounds to better understand how culture, family, and society shape our struggles, identities, relationships.

My mission is to help clients reclaim their lives and rewrite their stories by cultivating safety, pleasure, agency, and autonomy in their relationships—with themselves, others, and the world around them.  With openness and adaptability, I help clients explore their emotions, relationships, and boundaries in a way that fosters clarity, growth, and self-compassion. I support you in enhancing self-awareness, developing tools for healthy communication,  managing conflict, better understanding your wants and needs and identify unhelpful patterns.  Together, we create a safe, inclusive space that is explorative and grounded in fostering embodied growth and transformation.

Client Concerns

  • Anxiety/Depression/Grief
  • Asexuality and Aromanticism
  • Desire and Intimacy Discrepancy
  • Gender Identity
  • LGBTQIA2s+ Populations
  • Non monogamy/Polyamory
  • Sexual Shame

Therapeutic Approaches

  • Attachment Theory
  • Art Therapy
  • Existential Therapy
  • Gottman Method
  • Internal Family Systems
  • Polyvagal Theory

Books I Suggest

Additional Trainings

  • Somatic Sexual Healing, Charlie Glickman, 2024
  • 200 RYT Training, Yoga Farm Ithaca, 2022
  • ADHD & Sex, Bianca Lourenco, 2022
  • Understanding Out Of Control Sexual Behavior, Marc Gilmartin, 2022
  • MA in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and Art Therapy, Antioch University, 2021
  • Sex Therapy Certificate, Antioch University Seattle, 2021 
  • Colonization and Sex, Anne Mauro, 2021
  • Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level 1, The Gottman Institute, 2021
  • Attachment Theory, Kirk Honda, 2021
  • Somatic Theory and Oppression with Alicia Guthery, 2021
  • Sex Educator Certificate, Antioch University Seattle, 2020
  • Sex Therapy in Abusive Systems, Kathryn Stickney, 2020
  • Fat Sexuality, Sheila Addison, 2020
  • Wheel of Consent, Katie Spataro, 2020

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