Kristen Schaer

As a therapist, I help individuals discover the strength, self-compassion, and tools to shape the life they desire. With a focus on kink/BDSM/fetish, intimacy, LGBTQIA2s+ populations, polyamory/CNM, and sexual pain and dysfunction, I create a collaborative, person-centered experience. My approach is grounded in inclusivity, anti-racism, and dismantling systems of oppression while integrating Emotion-Focused Therapy and Systemic Narrative Therapy. Together, we’ll build a toolkit of resources and explore therapeutic goals.

As a therapist, I aim to empower clients by helping them tap into their strength, courage, and self-compassion to create the life they want. Pleasure is a vital part of the human experience, shaped by our identities, culture, history, trauma, and relationships, and I believe each person’s experience of pleasure is unique and empowering. I prioritize creating an inclusive, compassionate, and collaborative environment where all clients feel safe and supported. My practice is committed to principles of equity and justice, and my approach is centered on your unique needs and goals, fostering a hope-based experience focused on your individuality.

I provide practical tools—whether readings, videos, or activities—that clients can use throughout therapy and beyond. Our work will be experiential and goal-oriented, fostering exploration and growth. My methods include Emotion-Focused Therapy and Systemic Narrative Therapy, with a focus on empowering each client’s journey.